I have EXTREMELY dry, african-american textured hair (natural). Someone suggested i use a hot oil treatment, so I did all that stuff with the hot oil and cholesterol in my hair, and after i washed it out, my hair felt really soft at first (still a little wet). But when it completley dried off, it was exactly the same as before! It is just really rough and course and nappy... i really don't know what to do now, i need some suggestions!